abmdoggieThere’s no doubt about it, small (and sometimes large) children can put a damper on a woman’s sexual desire. The exhaustion factor is there quite often. There can be some resentment about the division of labor in the household. Hormonal changes can occur. Breastfeeding keeps prolactin in a woman’s body and that suppresses sexual desire.

The level of intimacy in the marriage generally goes up when children arrive. Sometimes that level is too high. All the issues that must be handled when children are part of the picture can overload a couple’s ability to be connected romantically.

I have found that most couples don’t begin to get back to anything that resembles their earlier sexual relationship until the youngest in the house is three. Until that time, most couples have less energy for sex. That’s the nature of raising little children if you’re doing the parenting instead of a nanny.

In my opinion, that’s where “dating” comes in. Pick a Saturday night for a date. Get a sitter. Make sure that you get a nap that afternoon (that’s your husband’s duty to assure). Then, go out for dinner and some time for emotional connection between you as adults. The sitter puts the baby to sleep and you come home as soon as the coast is clear. That’s your time to have some sex that isn’t hurried or sleepy.

Put those “dates” on the calendar as often as you feel is appropriate. Your husband then has at least that to anticipate. You feel less pressured on the other days. [Source]



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“Erogenous zones” are parts or areas of human body that provide sexual arousal when touched.  It is commonly noted (and various magazines have had polls on this) that apart from the genitals, the erogenous zones vary tremendously between individuals – even within Americans.  Some people like to have their breasts caressed, some like their neck or thighs being touched, or belly or feet etc.

So not all women want their breasts or nipples caressed. For some, the nipple area is just too sensitive for that. For some it’s nothing special. Yet others like it.

So it is a very individual thing – which shows these ‘erogenous zones’ are NOT in our anatomy as such. Truly, some people even say that their whole body is an erogenous zone for them.

Basically it is the skin that feels the touch, and loving touch on the skin releases oxytocin in us (more on oxytocin later) and makes us feel good. Then it is the mind that controls sexual arousal. The mere touch on skin does not cause sexual arousement without other factors.

nipple-weights2So breasts can be an erogenous zone for some, just as neck, ears, belly, thighs, etc. can be – and for some people they are NOT an erogenous zone. It’s an individual thing. Of course it is up to the couple what they do during their intimate moments, which body parts they touch or caress.  We don’t want to tell you what part to touch – hopefully if you love the person, you love ALL his/her body parts.

BUT this does not make breasts a sexual organ like genitals are. It is just skin as any other skin, and not even the most sensitive skin area in the body. How about nipples?

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Nipples are very sensitive since they have lots of nerve endings (some women don’t like theirs touched because of this; it’s so sensitive). And true, touching them can be arousing in a sensual circumstance.  Some women have even gotten an actual climax from nipple stimulation alone – though for the majority this is not so.  But why does it happen to some?

The answer really is very simple: sexuality is in the mind. Whether nipple stimulation is arousing or not depends on the woman’s mindset. If it is a sexual situation, and she believes touching nipples is part of that, then it can be arousing. And, the oxytocin released can further help that feeling.

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Nipple stimulation releases a hormone called oxytocin, which is responsible for the let-down reflex in breastfeeding.  In other words, oxytocin causes the milk flow within the breast. Also, labor contractions are caused by large quantities of oxytocin.  In fact, physicians routinely induce labor by injecting a certain form of oxytocin into women (pitocin).

Also, and very importantly, a kind touch anywhere in the body causes oxytocin to be released.  This is true for friendly hugs, massages, hairdresser touching your scalp, shaking hands, stroking someone’s skin, and caressing touch within the intimate moments – if it is kind and friendly, your body releases oxytocin.  Oxytocin makes you feel good, feel loving and friendly towards whomever touched you.  Also, it helps the mother will feel love towards her baby when the baby suckles on the breast.  In other words, it helps bonding.  It is called the love or cuddle hormone, and it exists in all kinds of friendly human relationships.

Oxytocin or kind touch is so important that babies who are not touched a lot, won’t develop properly.  The touch-deprivation that some lonely people experience can lead to depression.  Elderly people are especially in danger of that.  Everyone needs touch, everyone needs oxytocin, even your pet.

So nipple stimulation releases oxytocin, the cuddle hormone.  But only THE MIND will make a woman feel sexually aroused because of that.  It is not the nipple stimulation per se – if that was so, then she’d feel aroused during labor and giving birth, too, since large quantities of oxytocin are circulated in bloodstream during those painful moments.  The same is true of breastfeeding – baby’s suckling of nipple causes oxytocin to be released, but this alone does not usually create sexual arousal.

Most people agree that a human person can be ‘turned on’ just by the power of mind alone.  Mind or human brain is the biggest and most important ’sexual organ’ we have.  So if the woman believes it is sexually stimulating, if her husband is right there and he is emitting the pheromones for her to smell, and the setting is right, she’s thinking about it, then yes, it can be stimulating.  The oxytocin released helps her further to feel loved and loving. [source]



ambergr1Take control.
It’s a long-known strategy for guys to use reverse psychology to get a girl in the sack. The best way to guarantee a lay? Insist it’s not going to happen.

When women do it, it can be coy or coercing, playful or powerful. And sexperts insist that setting the boundaries of an intercourse-less night can be much hotter than you’d think. Remember foreplay? That thing you used to do before sex? How about an entire night of it? No running for the finish line, just enjoying the journey.

Have fun.
Flirty is fun. And a woman who’s having fun is almost always sexy. While men may be over childhood playground games, bedroom games (and grown-up toys) are a whole other story.

Forget Monopoly (yawn!) and Scrabble (unless you make it Strip Scrabble). Buy a board game from a sex shop and see if you can … finish. With a little creativity, you can turn everyday games into something much steamier.

One of the gals in Patty Brisben’s, founder and CEO of Pure Romance, Inc., office turned the waiting game into an actual game by making a scavenger hunt for her honey, leaving come-hither clues, along with “accessories” for the night’s festivities (massage oil, a candle, etc.).

Build anticipation.
Men are visual creatures, so flashing a little skin may be all it takes to get him hot under the collar. And in our drive-thru, “I want it now” society, a little delayed gratification can lead to one hell of an “I can’t wait to rip your clothes off” session once you two are finally in the same room.

“It’s so easy to leave a very provocative message or take a picture of yourself sitting in some sexy lingerie or whatever you want to put on,” Brisben says. “Just text and say, ‘This is what’s waiting for you.’”

Slutty doesn’t equal sexy.
While you may be capable of porn-worthy performances, guys are quick to point out that sexy doesn’t always mean slutty. Innocence definitely has a certain appeal. So don’t assume that you’ve always got to be comparable to Carmen Electra or Pam Anderson.

After getting great oral sex, Robert Hill rhetorically asked his girl: Where did you learn how to do that? “She whispered in my ear: ‘HBO.’ I thought it was cute, funny and, best of all, added to her innocence. Honestly, no guy wants to know who ‘taught’ a girl,” he says.

Do the unexpected.
There’s a time and place for everything, some say. But when you decide to get down and dirty at conventionally inappropriate times and places, that’s when great sex becomes memorable sex.

Aerosmith’s Steven Tyler sang about love in an elevator. And men like Luke Shore remember getting caught, literally, with his pants down when he and his girlfriend were in the park “playing” after dark.

Be into it.
Most men want to know they’re doing a good job and that you’re getting into it too.

So don’t be afraid to let loose. You don’t have to scream and moan like a banshee, or fake the big O, but do make sure your partner can tell you’re enjoying yourself. Sometimes stroking his ego can be just as arousing as actually stroking him.

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For Women, better orgasm

For Women, better orgasm

All over the world, decreased libido in women is a common problem. Regardless of the race and the age group, the problem has been affecting almost every woman. However, there are women who easily overcome the problem, but there are also those who do not. When women fail to naturally and easily overcome a decline in sexual desire, troubles and concerns get in.

It would be appropriate if people, especially women, will be knowledgeable about the mechanisms that lead to a lack of libido. It is understandable that there are more women who are in denial about having this problem. Openness and acceptance are common ways on how such women can start seeking and finding solutions to these problems.

The female sex drive is a result of a natural female hormone called estrogen. If there is abundant production of the hormone, decreased libido could be appropriately and naturally prevented. However, there are natural occurrences and phenomenon that lead to lower production of estrogen.

First, there is decreased in women libido during the onset or the first few months during pregnancy. Pregnant women naturally dislike having sexual intercourse because their estrogens are declining. On the first few weeks, the hormonal changes can also lead to mood swings, physical changes and of course, the mental anguish that usually leads to insecurities about sexiness and body figures.

The second common situation is during menopause. Menopausal period is a duration in ageing women’s lives when hormones easily fluctuate and then significantly fall. This results primarily to diminished libido, mood wings, dryness of the vagina and occasional hot flashes.

Be reminded that a decline in libido is not an abnormality. Instead, it is considered natural and is normally occurring to all women. There have always been natural and herbal supplements available to help overcome and regulate decreased libido in women. You should know that such supplements are really helpful and have been proven effective in normalizing or controlling libido levels and other conditions that may be related to female hormonal imbalances.

Such supplements are usually containing enzymes, nutrients and substances that help the female body take improved estrogen production. They also help make the female anatomy better, more functional and healthier so that there will be ease dealing with different physical and physiological changes and reactions.



abmdoggieExperts and many women agree there’s no better sexual position for orgasm than cowgirl or woman-on-top. It’s got all the right ingredients: you’re in control of everything, there’s external and internal stimulation and he can usually last longer when he’s lying on his back. But quality ingredients alone do not make a gourmet (or orgasmic) meal, you’ve got to know what to do with them. That’s why we put together the ultimate guide to this sexual position. Here you’ll find out how to position yourself, ways to move and guidance on reaching that ever-elusive climax. Saddle up and read on!

The basics. Once you’re up there, you have a few options for your legs and arms. One leg move is to squat over him with only your feet on the ground or bed on either side of his hips. This can feel great but can also have your thighs burning in moments. You can also kneel or straddle over him. This move is a little less strenuous and gives you more options. Dr. Sadie Allison, president of  TickleKitty.com, says putting your feet on top of his thighs in this sexual position will give you even more stability. You have more freedom with your arms. They can be placed anywhere from his chest, right down by his sides or around his neck. Arm position will also affect how close you are to him, how your back is and the angle he’s inside you. Try a few options to see what feels best, since every combination will feel slightly different. If you’ve maneuvered yourself to where you don’t need to balance on your arms you can use them to stimulate him—or yourself. Switching it up a bit.In addition to traditional arm and leg movements, you can also try reverse cowgirl, the sexual position where you’re on top facing his feet. For some couples this move can help you hit the g-spot and feel great for him. Dr. Allison recommends arching your back in this sexual position to hit better angles inside you and to give him a stunning visual. Another way to switch up being on top is to change locations, specifically to a chair. Dr. Joy Davidson, sex therapist and creator of The Joy Spot, says this sexual position (where you basically sit on his lap) can make all the difference for women who may not like traditional cowgirl. Because the angle of penetration is different and you’re very close together, it can give you new sensations and offers a lot of clitoral stimulation. “Furniture matters; don’t reject the position until you’ve tried every piece of furniture in your house,” she says. Rolling with it. Okay, so you’ve got your arms, legs and maybe your chair positioned, now what do you do? Start moving—and here’s how: Up and down—This move is great for him, not quite as much for you though since the clitoral stimulation you’re getting is stopping and starting. Rocking your hips—You get maximum stimulation from his penis pushing against you and you rubbing your clitoris against him.

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Disclaimer: If “dirty words” and images that are not outside normal sexuality, offend You than perhaps you need to un -bunch Your panties before wondering why Your relationship is so dull.

It doesn’t take “porn star” moves to give great oral sex. With a little creativity and variation to the classic technique, oral sex will continue to be exciting and sensual for you and your partner. And by getting him all hot and bothered, imagine what you’ll get in return.

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I’m about to show you enticing oral sex techniques for you to take only as far as you please. You don’t have to “deep throat” him. You don’t have to taste his come. And you certainly don’t have to swallow – although you just might like it after all. Just pick and choose what tickles your fancy, and advance from there.

Start with the The Classic Blowjob then try one of these variations as your springboard to wild improvisations. Which of these will become your one Golden Technique to finish him off?
Tip Top.
Slide the tip of your wet tongue all around his head, peehole and V-spot. Work your tongue into every crevice and skin fold till he’s taut and hard.

Tea Bagging.
Let your tongue roam down beyond his shaft and onto his balls. Tap them lightly with your tongue, increasing the intensity. Now gently fill your mouth with one (or both!) of them.

Sweet Nothings.
As softly and lightly as you possibly can, tease the head of his penis with your mouth and tongue. Let him feel mostly your hot moist breath.

Hummer.
Place your puckered lips on him and hum “The Star Spangled Banner.” The vibrations should make him stand and salute!

XXX-treme.
Change the temperature in your mouth and change the sensation around his penis. Fill your mouth with ice water, hot tea, or shaved ice – and plunge him in. Or just blow your cool or hot breath over his eager penis.

Bait & Switch. Lead him to think you’re going to get him off with a handjob, and right before he comes, land your hot mouth on him. For contrast, try a fast hand motion, then a slow, hard suck. Or pull out a vibrator and get shaking!

Just Say O. Keep your head still as he does all the thrusting motion into your mouth. You may want to grip your hand around the base or use a penis sleeve to act as a buffer, so he doesn’t go too deep.

Penis Alarm Clock.Place a strong mint or menthol cough drop in your mouth – along with his penis. The minty or menthol sensation can awaken the nerve endings even more. [source]



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Sex After 40 A Rare Event For Single Women

The single women on Desperate Housewives don’t seem to have much of a problem finding sexual partners, but real life single women over the age of 40 may not be having as much luck, say researchers from Vanderbilt University. Their new study, appearing in the Journal of Aging Studies finds that as women get older, they report having fewer sexual partners – often no sexual partners – as a result of cultural beliefs and the biological and social effects of aging. Somewhat predictably, more women than men report having no partners.

The study focused on those aged 40 to 59 who are single, divorced or widowed; a group, the researchers say, that is typically underrepresented in sexual studies. “We’ve all seen the seductive 40- or 50-something divorcee portrayed in the movies who attracts men like honey draws flies. Think of Susan Sarandon’s character in the film Bull Durham. However, this appears to be the exception rather than the rule and maybe that is part of these characters’ allure,” said the leader of the study, Vanderbilt’s Laura Carpenter.

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The study found that a combination of factors contributed to this enforced celibacy, including:

  • Older women being viewed by both men – and the women themselves – as less attractive as they age
  • Conservative beliefs about premarital sex-[ There it is, one of the BIGGEST hang ups for the AMERICAN woman - Taught some stupid ideas by people who's panties are bunched to tight.] Life is to short, Live it up Baby !!
  • The trend of older men/younger women pairings
  • Higher male mortality rates

Which the researchers say add up to women having fewer – or no – sexual partners; particularly after the age of 50.

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IGIJOENIP5Okay, let’s be honest – even sex can get boring, especially if it’s with the same person day after day and in particular, if you don’t vary things a bit. Would you want to eat chocolate mousse for dessert every day for the rest of your life? And yet, people often think of having sex in the missionary position as “normal” and do it that way every time without respite. But it’s not just positions that count. There are many factors which help to create surprise, fun, spontaneity and excitement in sexual relations. Let’s look at some of them.

Attitude

The most important sex organ is the mind. That’s where arousal begins and ideas are generated. So, let your mind get down and dirty! It‘s fun and helps a lot to take love-making out of the ordinary and into the realms of fantasy, ecstasy, and even the bizarre if you wish. Only you know your own mind, so allow it free rein. Try not to monitor or judge your thoughts even if they seem a bit “off” or unusual. After all, you don’t have to live out your fantasies – in fact, a fantasy lived out is a fantasy lost. Some things you may want to try out; others, you might prefer to enjoy in the privacy of your own thoughts. So, just be open to this area of sexual expression and it’ll be a good start.

Communication

Let your partner in on some of these ideas. If they don’t want to try them out, that’s fine, but just talking about them can be very arousing. Also, honesty about what you’re thinking creates true intimacy. Ask your partner to experiment and tell them what you want, for example, if you fancy trying anal sex for the first time or if you want to try out a particular sex aid. If you don’t ask, you won’t know. A lot of people find it hard to talk about sex and especially asking for what they want in bed. We’re not all the same – just as some of us are more verbal and clear, others can be shy and more introverted. That’s where videos and sex games can help a lot in breaking down inhibitions.

Variety

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Make a point of trying something new regularly. If you live busy lives and tend to have a “quickie” once a week or so, start setting time aside to just be together. Create a sensual sexual space and don’t rush. Enjoy each other’s bodies, play, experiment, talk openly about your feelings and desires. Don’t wait for your partner to do all the initiating. Swap roles continuously – nothing is more stimulating! Sometimes, be the dominant one, at other times, be more passive, act out fantasies, dress up. Variety can come in the form of positions, the actual things you do in bed and of course, where you do it. Surprise your partner in the shower, phone him or her at work and talk dirty, wake up in the middle of the night, fondle your partner out of sleep and insist on sex right then! Maybe greet your partner at the end of the day dressed up in a PVC outfit or as a French maid then insist on wearing the outfit throughout the evening without any physical contact at all. Anticipation is half the fun! These are just suggestions but if you let your imagination run free, you’ll come up with all kinds of activities and games that will put the spark back into a dull sex life.

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Of course, it’s best if you can keep your relationship exciting continuously rather than wait till it gets deathly dull and then try to gee it up. Often, when people see me for sexual dysfunction problems or difficulties in their marriage, it comes down to boredom, in the case of infidelity, for example. Sex doesn’t have to be mind-blowing all the time but it should be satisfying to both parties and that takes a little bit of effort after the first heady days of lust and constant longing.[source]

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Great Sex is 90% mental because in the end it’s just You beating it. A partner that know the game just sets Your mind to where you enjoy it more.

It may take a few tries

The secret to erotic and great fantasy on line is finding the right partner. Free sites and dating chat rooms are OK if you just want to play around, make an ass of yourself or are basically a dip shit who wouldn’t know good fantasy Sex if it got pounded up his ass. Pay Date sites and personals again are OK if You are single and just mingling having no real goal other than as if You were at a singles bar being Your dumb ass self ( You know it’s true or You wouldn’t be on line looking for fun. ) For a busy business person or a married / committed person just wanting to add a little spice to life nothing beats a professional cam babe. These are the “escorts” of online Sex. They know what their job is, have no time for head games, are not a threat to your current relationship and if the right one is found and treated right is capable of rocking your on line sexual erotic experience. Remember You get what You pay for, pay for it and You get it. Important note here get someone who loves their job, not one of these fruity little collage babes who although smokin’ ass hot has You use up all Your credits and You haven’t even seen her in her panties yet. That’s not to say to rush in like a 14 year old AOL chat room dumb ass but feel her out let her get a feeling about You. Show respect but don’t act like You want to have kids with her. Satisfaction at half the cost.

Much like a stripper or escort, once She See’s You as a regular pay check She will go out of Her way to please You. And for God’s sake don’t become a pussy whipped bowl of jello and let Her control things. Your paying, she serves. Keep it professional and You’ll enjoy it more. It’s a two way street. She does it for money and can’t waste Her time on a looser, You on the other hand have a need to fill , already might have a boring relationship and sure as hell don’t need another one for head games.

It may take some looking but eventually You will find one that can rock Your world. This will not only save You time and money but also insure maximum pleasure for Your money. You will know right where to go, what to do and go on with life. That’s what makes flings and the girlfriends they produce more fun than a spouse. It’s all about pleasure, the spouse has the hard job so give them credit where due…….. now go and have some fun, life is to short……..




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if your single or just out of a long term misery or not. If Your married and the Old battle axe You’ve been married to let Her Sex drive slip away with the Reagan presidency, Maybe You’d rather go to the dentist for a root canal than see Her naked or maybe You just want something new ( changed the old socks) whatever this thing called the Internet has laid before You all kinds of options without having to pay alimony, if your smart about it. If You think long and hard and realize the price . In any case Go YOUNGER, trust Me she will age in time. If she’s Your age You can’t reverse it. Like rebuilding a ‘67 GTO, You can do all the body work, all the fixin’ up but in the end You still have a 67 GTO. That’s only if Your lucky enough to have had one of those old crabs no one else would ever want. ( in all fairness, it might have been Your fat gut ass all along who made her that way. Not My call) Who cares If you have great conversations after the loving, You spent all those years NOT talking to the Ex. Now enjoy the Sex………..

For the old Farts
One thing I noticed on line is that most of the dating / matchmaking sites are geared towards the “Young and Beautiful ” Sure we have fantasies but when You want someone You can relate to, someone who knows that when Paul McCartney and Micheal Jackson sang to get her, it was not Jackson who gave Paul a step to fame. That moon boots were worn not just on the moon. A dating site that connects Us with others looking of the same age bracket or at least from the same decade.

I mean some cute lil 21 year old with skin like milk and a body that makes you hyperventilate when the cloths slip off might be great for the moment, but when She says ” I have a pair of Aerosmith jeans” no that’s aeropostale baby, Aerosmith is a band, You realize You better get her and keep her in the sack before the excitement wears off. When at “The Outback” they bring You a menu and a coloring place-mat with 3 Crayola’s You might think about the relationship. It just might be time to re think Your fantasies. If You just want a Younger, nastier little bitch that is not shy about getting down and dirty than look around this blog there are a bunch of choices. If You want to try and find both, someone you can relate with, someone you can chat with after the lovin’ check out Prime singles………….

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I knew being a cop’s wife would be hard. The only thing I didn’t anticipate was the loneliness. We’re a young married couple struggling for money, so Ted works all the overtime he can which leaves me at home alone. It got to be more the I could stand, so I started going out and hitting the local clubs. Looking back, I guess I was looking for trouble, But I didn’t realize it until I’d found it. I like to attract a little attention when I go out. It’s a good way to keep your bar tab down. That night I slipped into a thin cotton dress which was cut high above the knee and low on my chest-and so tight it guaranteed I’d get all the attention I wanted. The club was typically crowded for a Friday night. All the regulars were there, including this guy Jake who’d been flirting with me hard for the last couple of weeks. He knew I was married, but that didn’t seem to stop him. I wouldn’t have been so encouraging, but he was damned hot, tall, dark, broad chest, I flirted with him all night. I even let him drag me out onto the dance floor and grind me for a while. I could feel his cock through his jeans and it did make me more then a little curious. Of course, the more he drank, the more Jake tried to fondle me. I was enjoying it, even though I had no intention of letting things go further. I finally suggested he step outside to get some air. He said he would, If I went too, I agreed.

The night was chilly and Jake’s eyes were glued to my nipples poking through my dress. Jake grabbed me and kissed me hard. I struggled to get out of his arms, but he was to strong. He finally stopped, saying, “You’ve been teasing me for weeks. It’s time for you to give it up.” I started to tell him no, but it was clear he wasn’t listening to anything I had to say. He kissed me again, his hands grabbing my ass. I was crushed against him and the longer we kissed, the more I found I liked it, It had been weeks since I’d made love to my husband and all that frustration came rushing forward. Jake sensed the change in me and moved his hands forward, mauling my breasts. He pulled open the front of my dress and pulled my thick nipples through my bra. I was busy rubbing his bulge through his jeans. I wanted him so badly. Jake pushed me against the car, pulling up my dress while I worked on his jeans. The parking lot was small and not badly lit. Anyone coming in or out of the bar would have seen us if they looked, but all that mattered to me was getting that cock in me. Everyone in the bar could think I was some kind of slut, I didn’t care. “Come on, baby, do it, fuck me,” I begged Jake, Jake pulled my panties aside and slipped two fingers inside me. I was so wet sooo ready. I was positively gushing. Jake sat me up in the hood of the car and shoved his cock inside me. He was nice and thick and my pussy clung to him.
I wrapped my legs around his waist to pull him farther inside me. I tried to keep quiet, but it was hard. I know we must have drawn some attention. I came first, biting Jakes shoulder to muffle my cries. Jake came right behind me shooting his load deep inside me. Jake pulled out and I hopped off the hood, trying to fix myself. My pussy was dripping, gooey mess, Surprisingly I have no guilt. And now that my adulterous cherry’s been broken, I am really thinking about becoming a cheating slut.



Relationship Advice For Women Who Have Hope For Successful Relationships

Some things should never be let to see the light of the day. Folklore has it that the truth will always set you free but in dating relationships, some things are better left unsaid. According to my relationships advice, women should learn to keep some issues in the dark. Many guys who are serious with you will off course ask you about the number of men you have dated. By this he does not mean the guy you had an innocent tour with through the park. He wants to know the number of guys you have got intimate with. In life people kiss many frogs who look like princes. Do not tell the truth especially if they exceed five. The number of men or women you have slept with should be tightly locked in the cupboard if you have any hope of successful relationships.

I thought of giving relationships advice to women because i am tired of seeing them spoiling their once successful relationships. You might not love your body that much but do not disclose the body shape insecurities. Your guy sees you beautiful and attractive. Let him continue like that. If you start highlighting the body parts you do not like, he will start seeing them. If your thighs are too fat do something to improve them but do not whine about it. If you do not like yourself, the man might believe in you and hate what he previously liked. This puts a strain on dating relationships. John left his former girlfriend because she kept on complaining that her bum was so big. He after all saw it was extra ordinarily big and he left.

When it comes to the matters of the heart we sometimes act so stupidly. It is hard to deny love but whatever you do as a woman do not show your man that you cannot live without him. You can tell it to your close friends who off course will pump sense into you but do not tell it to your boyfriend. This dating relationships advice is essential for women who are regularly abused by their partners. If your man does something wrong to you and does not care to apologize, do not let it pass. There are some women who are used like door mats but they act like nothing happened because they cannot bear doing without the man in their life. Successful relationships are born out of love and respect.

Most women come clean when they are caught cheating on the spouses. What makes a cheating behavior in a man so forgivable? Women who have been caught cheating always accept to having a moment of passion. Men on the other hand will always use the phrase “it wasn’t me.” At these time and age when cheating women are on the rise, women need some dating relationships advice. Never admit that you were cheating on him. The moment you admit the relationship hits a dead end. Denying makes the man in your life start believing in you and possibly giving the relationship a second chance. People in relationships also make mistakes but they have to be wise in order to enjoy successful relationships.



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If He cheats. I have written about this before now I found evidence that I was not wrong :
Put your relationship above your kids
The best way you can be a good parent to your children is by keeping your marriage strong and your home peaceful. This will also help model a loving and connected relationship for your children to copy later in life. That means not letting your maternal guilt get in the way of putting your husband and your relationship first

A recent John Hopkins study found that people are now rating similar interests, emotional connection, etc. as more important in a marriage than children. This is a welcome shift from studies in the past in which married individuals put children before everything.

Couples that devote all of their emotional energy, affection, time and resources to their children end up having nothing left for their spouse.

This doesn’t mean don’t love your kids 100 percent — it just means that you need date nights, vacations without the kids, and more time spent with your spouse one-on-one.

Have sex at least once a week even if you’d rather be sleeping or doing laundry
The more sex you have, the closer he will feel to you. The closer he feels to you, the more romantically and intimately he will behave — and the more you will want to have sex with him! Frequent sex is one of the key nutrients that feed a loving relationship. During the very worst of times (crisis, illness, etc.) you shouldn’t go more than two weeks without being sexual. Ideally, you should shoot for once a week or more. Most women say that once they get started, they enjoy it and even think “Hey! Why don’t we do this more often?” So, put away the chore list and just do it!
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On a business seminar in Las Vegas I had decided to try WolfGang Pucks at the MGM Grand.While waiting to be seated I heard a voice ask “ Are You here for the seminar? “ Looking over I made eye contact with smiling face that belonged to a 50 something lady well dressed to the point that You could tell she was sophisticated and well bred and a chest that even I who is not Bi could not help but notice. To say the least Her cleavage was abundant to say the least, especially to someone with nothing. “Yes , I am “ I replied “You?” yes my husband and I are here for the seminar. After a bit of small talk We were approached by a Man well groomed and with a body that he spent at least 2 hours a day maintaining. I guessed He was in his mid 50’s about 5’9”, just a tad taller than I. This is My husband the woman stated. “Hello” Hello was his response as he kissed My hand. Are You alone I was asked. “Yes, my husband could not come” Well why don’t you eat with us? Well, Ok that would be great. After the meal and some getting acquainted chat, We decided to have some drinks. Why don’t We go up to our room and order some drinks room service, it’s on the top floor of the MGM and the view its to die for” As the elevator climbs to the suites on the upper floors of the MGM I look over wear Your panties and bra and catch the couple looking at me in a look that caught me off guard and startled me a bit. They smiled, I smile back. The suite is large enough to hold at least 50 people. There is a large window with a great view of the Vegas strip, a huge bed covered with pillows and even a Hot tub. After a few more drinks of Rum and coke ( I don’t normally drink so it takes nothing to get me a bit light headed) The Wife, whose name is Ann yells with enthusiasm and a burst of excitement “ Hey let’s get in the hot tub. The husband agrees, But I don’t have a bathing suit. That’s OK, you don’t need one. I say nervously, I don’t know if I can do that. Yes You can don’t be shy. Well than just your panties and bra. But I don’t have much up top so my bra’s have a bit of padding and would get ruined. She comes back with a scarf than this will work. Both strip down to their skin as I turn my head embarrassed, shocked and a bit excited. You coming in? hesitating a bit i slip out of My dress down to my panties and bra. Now tie the scarf round your Tits she jokes. Hearing her use the word tits caught me off guard a bit. Noticing my hesitation she comes out of the water, Here turn around. As I turn she undoes my bra letting it fall to the floor, taking the scarf she reaches around Me , her wrist rubbing across my nipple makes my body flinch. She ties it behind my back and says “There you go” I am trying not to stare at her boobs but they are so large making it almost impossible. She notices and winks with a smile.

The water feels so good after a long day in Vegas. I tilt my head back and close my eyes. “ another drink? I hear opening My eyes just to witness the husband, Jim lean over the edge of the tub stretching to reach the rum. I catch sight of his tight Butt and notice he has a erection of about 7”. I look away my face turning red, his wife witnessed this and laughed. ‘What do we have here? are you excited baby? “ as she reaches over wrapping her hand around His hard shaft. I want to look away but can’t. She strokes Him a few times than looks at me and asks “would you like to try” Oh No I answer, feeling My face blush. She smiles, shrugs and turns her attention back to his hard cock. Leaning forward she takes him into her mouth, her head moving up and down slowly. He moans . Looking over at me He notices my stare. I look up and see that he is watching me. He smiles, than closes his eyes. Pushing him closer to me she gets in front of him , the water to her neck, coming slowly out of the water Her breasts dripping wet come out from the warm water and slide up his thighs till his cock is between the massive mounds. Squeezing them around his cock he starts to thrust his hips. “ that’s it baby, does that feel good?” Con’t in Pt.2



Just a couple hours or so ago, I couldn’t help myself, lost control and sucked a Man, a man not my husband till He came. I still feel excited and a bit nervous so I have to let it play in my mind a bit before I post how it happened. My husband has been wanting Me to do it as he watches, he likes the thought of me being a horny cheating slut wife I think, but that would make me real nervous so We agreed if the chance presented itself I should take it as long as I was safe about it. That way My reluctance about him watching would be extinguished. So, It happened at the gym with a trainer I had never seen before. Come to find out He was from the company headquarters out east and touring their western locations. What happened? read on……..

I had decided to go by the gym before work this morning so I could take the weekend off since Hubby left again till Monday we hope. Anyway as I pulled into the
parking lot at the health club I noticed it was only 5:30am and it opens at 6:00. I figured I would just get a good spot up front. A few of the trainers and employees
were already inside getting ready. I noticed a Silver Lexus park next to me and a gentleman in his late forties get out. He nodded hello as We made eye contact
and he proceeded to the front door. Suddenly he stopped and turn and approached my drivers door. I rolled down the window and he said “good morning” than ask if I
was waiting to get in. I replied Yes and He ask if I would like to come in and get a early start. “sure, thanks” I said. As we walked in I noticed the people I thought
were trainers were actually the night cleaning crew who were leaving just as We walked in. He intoduced himself as Steve and was what He called a PR man from
company headquarters. He told me he was down inspecting and going through the clubs in the area. He than excused himself and went to his office. Enjoy your hour
alone, no waiting for machine’s he smiled. An hour? don’t you open at 6. No we open at 6:30 he said. I have never come in the morning ,I come after work I thought it
was 6:00, Oh well. I went and changed in the locker room. After my 35 minutes on the treadmill I went to use the machines but noticed the room usually full of sweaty
macho men was empty, the free weights. I walked in and looked around and set up the machine where You pull the T-handle down from over your head to your chest.
after a few tries I heard a voice. “You do free weights? Not usually but the room was empty so I decided I might try a few. As I turned I notice he had shed the suit
and tie for coach shorts and a tank top. Your doing that wrong you know, you can hurt your back doing it like that. Here let me show You as i stepped back and he
started to pull down and back up. Like this thumbs to the frontand elbowspointing out, here try it. I grabbed the bar again and pulled it down, “No No, like this as he
stepped behind me and put his hands next to mine His chest touching My back.Now pull down slow, thats it, see isn’t that a bit easier on your back. Yes it is.
A few more pulls and I felt him closer ” that’s it much better. Than I felt something hard poke me in My lower back. Somebody is awake I joked. He laughed.
Out of nowhere he slid his hands down My arms to under my arm pit. You should feel it right in here as he massaged me just under my arms .Righthere is
where you should feel the stretch. Without missing a beat he let his hands slid into the openings of my tank top. I don’t have anything there I said almost
embarrassed. he said nothing as he slid fingers under the edge of my bra and lift it over my nipples which is all there was with my arms in the air as they were.
I started to lower my arms and was told to leave them there. Pinching and gently pulling my perky nipples. “See I told you there was nothing there I said again”
Shhhhhh was my answer.right before his hands worked their way down over my ribs and to my hips. Fingers going into the band of my shorts and panties at
the same time, sliding down till they were on the front top of my thighs. he squeezed, his hands just inches from my now moist coochie. I felt a thumb slide
over my smooth lips which finally got a response from him as he said “Mmmmm, shaven” slipping one hand between My legs he cupped my and squeezed,
massaging my now wet shaven coochie lips, finger tips finding my sweet spot, rubbing it in small gentle circles. Just relax, close your eyes and enjoy as
he entered me with his middle finger. As he started to finger faster his free hand grabbed one of my wrists and pulled my hand around my back, he put it
on his rock hard shaft and moved my hand up and down along it full length. I wrapped my fingers and started stroking on the outside of his shorts. I felt like a total slut horny wife.
A few strokes later he pulled the front of his shorts down letting the monster out, I found it with my hand and started stroking like a wild woman. His second
finger filled me wall to wall as He started to work them in and out faster, I could feel deep down as my knees started to quiver what was about to happen. As I
came were it not for his fingers holding me up I might have collapsed. I kept stroking till he stopped me. “It’s almost 6:30 he said I seen a few cars pull in
and I’m afraid we will have company soon. I so wanted to return the favor and finish him. But he pulled his shorts up and told me to go to that room in the
back and wait,which I did. It was a kind of dark and cold room with brick walls that lead to the back of the building. The door opened and he walked in
I started to say something but he said Shhhhh. He came over to me and put his hands on My shoulders ” we don’t have long” he said as He put pressure
on my shoulders. I knew what he wanted as I knelt to the hard cold floor. He reached down and pulled my tee shirt over my head, undid my bra and took
it off know they are not bad, kind of cute” as he pinched my nipple between his thumb and finger. Standing straight without a word he pulled the front of his
shorts down and released his rock hard manhood, holding it he stroked it a few times than put his hand on the back of my head “Open” he said as he
pulled my head to it and into my mouth, I went to grab it with my hand and he said ” no hands” I started bobbing my head from top to as far as I could down
along his throbbing hard cock. it did not take all to long before I felt it start to throb and his hips start to buck,I grabbed his balls and felt how tight they had gotten
I knew what was coming as I tilted my head to the side so the path of the shot would go to the sidee, my cheek rather than gag me. My mouth fill with hat thick
cum as He thrust his hips forward and moaned. a few more thrusts and he pulled out with a “Plop” and pulled his shorts up. ” I have to go, I hope you enjoyed
your work out this morning he said as he went out the door. Still on my knees I could not believe what happened. It was so erotic and happened so fast I did not have
time to get nervous or shy…… putting my bra and shirt on I slowly opened the door and looked both ways before walking with a fast pace to the locker room.
On the way out he was at the front desk again in his suit and tie. Have a great day Ma’am, and come back soon” he said as he waved. I could only say with a quite
voice “Thank You” ………..

P.S. the picture was taken by Him with his phone camera and he sent it to me. I think he got my number from my membership file . It was kind of dark and I never noticed a flash so the quality is not the best……